What level of intimacy is allowed or not allowed
between a husband and wife
during fasting
What is
Well-known among the Muslims and the consensus of all scholars of Islam that
having intercourse
during the daytime of Ramadan is
prohibited
>Now what draws a person closer to intercourse
Is prohibited as well?
but if a person
knows
himself well and
He knows that he has
self-control and
He would not ever be tempted to fall into
intercourse during the daytime of Ramadan
whether it's a he or a she in this case, there is no problem in any type of
intimacy as
Long as it does not lead to intercourse. So kissing hugging being intimate is permissible
providing you have
Self-control and this is how mother Aisha may Allah be pleased with her described. Our Prophet
Having great
self-control and that he would not ever be tempted or fall into
Such a sinful act during the daytime of Ramadan and this is why
when the Companions used to be asked
About a man kissing his wife during the daytime of Ramadan
sometimes they would say there is no problem and
sometimes they would say this is prohibited and when their
Companions asked them why give two different answers?
They said that the first man was an old man. So kissing his wife would not lead to anything dangerous
Because he's old he's not
Hot-blooded he's not young while the second person was a young man. Who was newly Wed
So most likely if he kisses his wife
Things would escalate and lead to something that might put him in
danger in the sense that he may have intercourse with his wife which
Would mean that they would have to pay the expiation
Freeing a slave if not possible fasting two consecutive months if not possible
feeding 60 people one would say
For missing one day I fast 60 consecutive days
With none stop. This is too much. Well, you don't decide my friend whether it's too much or not
You have committed a grave and serious sin and you have to pay the consequences
now
Who?
Dictated that this is the expiration. It's a large origin
So you don't get to pick and choose
You don't get to say hmm reading sixty people is okay
It only it's only 10% of my salary. So here we go. No
You have to free a slave. There are no slaves. You have to fast sixty consecutive months. I can't why can't you oh
It's too difficult to have meetings. I have to drink cappuccino and I have to do this. This is not a legitimate excuse
Are you?
You have to fast share sixty days is too much. This is what you have to pay
Because you have sinned and disobeyed Allah