One of the biggest fears of boys and their moms who are considering a proposal to marry a divorcee girl is, "why did her husband leave her"?
Everyone knows a clap requires two hands. So instead of pointing at the mistakes of your ex husband better correct your own shortcomings too to make your future happier.
A second marriage opportunity means do not repeat your past mistakes. Here is a list of things that can help you in protecting your future from being harmed by your past:
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Spot your weakness. Ask your elders and close friend to help you locate your errors in nature.
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When face by a situation, search solution in Qur’an and Sunnah. You will find them practical and easy to apply.
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Read examples of Sahaba and Sahabiyat for motivation in overcoming hardships in life.
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Do not talk too negative and bitter about your previous in laws but appear positive
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Appreciate your current in laws before your parents and circle. Do not criticise them. Remember, a faultless life is possible on in Paradise.
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Overlook the faults of others and pardon them and make dua for them
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Express love- The prophet (peace be upon him) said - Aisha, my wife in this world and Hereafter.
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Be thankful to Allah and your inlaws for being given a second chance in life
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Seek the help of Allah to sail through hardship in life
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Love your inlaws for the sake of Allah
