Asalam alaikum wa Rahmotullaah wa Barakatuh I am an African Muslim from Nigeria, I am a Muslimah striving to please her Rabb and be a better person everyday Bi Idhnillaah. I observe my 5 daily Solah by the grace of Allaah and I try as much as possible to connect with Allaah on a daily basis through reading his message in both Arabic Language and in English which helps me appreciate the message contained there better. Presently, I am striving to learn Arabic Language and improve my recitation of the book of Allaah. I love to read and my favorite are books that help me learn more about my deen and become a better Muslimah. I am an Accountant by profession though trying to build my skills as a writer. I schooled in my country of Origin and I work presently as an Accountant with a Food and Consumer goods Organization though, I have worked in the finance industry previously. I am from a family of five with two siblings; an elder sister and a younger brother who are doing well in their professions Alhamdulilaah. My siblings and I try to maintain a good and robust relationship. We understand our limits, respect and love one another greatly. My parents have always encouraged an atmosphere where we are free to discuss with them and we respect them for all the sacrifice they have made on our behalf. We try to keep in touch even if we do not get to see physically constantly, we strive to stay connected. I am a sincere and open minded person and I appreciate people who are not two faced individuals if you are blunt about an issue, I might hurt but I would prefer you say it like it is and not sugar coat it because I can move on better that way. My future spouse should be one who can correct me without breaking me and I would appreciate you calling me to order when i fall short in a kind manner - no one can get it wrong when done this way I am an organized person with a high sense of hygiene. I love things being in order and though this is a strength, it could be a weakness because when things are not in order, it could affect my ability to get things done. But then, I find a way to function regardless of the circumstances. I pay attention to details and a good observer …..This trait helps me know how to relate with people even though I am reserved and an introvert by nature….. I am intuitive and this draws me close to people because I am able to understand their moods and help out too in whatever way I can. My future spouse would find me a good listener, helper, counselor when needed, a friend, a playmate because I am very playful especially when I am around family and friends. I could be mischievous and naughty too- not the bad type -LOL I love people that are down to earth and fun to be with. I admire wisdom and maturity in people. I try to remain positive most times though this is a struggle especially with life experiences. I am loyal and remain committed to people so you would find me standing by you through thick and thin not running away due to issues. When I am not busy, I would either sleep (I love sleeping….LOL) or watch Cartoons and I love adventure (any activity that would shoot my adrenaline level higher than usual). In Shaa Allaah, I hope to travel and see the world. I have just a few friends, and though I do not do very well in crowds, I relate well with people at any level when I have to. I love nature and it remains evergreen for me. It calms me and I would do anything to get lost on a beach staring at the waves endlessly, stare at the skies take different shapes and color, sit in an environment where birds chirp, waters flow, winds blow the leaves on trees gently and I can hear myself think and reflect on the wonders of creation and the creator. Taking walks alone or with a great companion to discuss with or just enjoy the scenery with does wonders I love reading and learning beneficial things. I am an enthusiastic learner. I believe in eating and living healthy though I have a sweet tooth, I try to balance it out. I am a single mother to a 4 year old girl from a previous marriage. I strive to maintain my composure though it gets ruffled with events and situations at times. I am not perfect but I think I strive for near perfection. This is a flaw which makes me beat myself when I fall short though I am quick to remind myself that I am but human with imperfections. I am strong willed by nature and quite resilient too. I am a very discreet person and would not go about relating what happens to me anyone.............my future spouse will find a reliable confidant whose secret and issues will always be safe with

I am looking for a spouse who has shared values with me, someone who is conscious and strives to be a better muslim and creature of Allaah. Sincerity, Maturity, Loyalty, Commitment, and Wisdom are part of the important virtues I look for in a potential spouse. His goal which is also mine must be for us to pull one another to Al-Jannah. Looks matter to me but I prefer personality and character over looks, he must be able to cater for a family. I seek a friend, companion and someone who I can let my guard down with. He should be one who is confident about himself and doesn't have inferiority complex He should be easy to talk to and communicate with He should be willing to accept me with my daughter and take me for who I am. I understand that marriage is all about compromise and adjustment will need to be made by both parties which I am willing to make Bi Idhnillaah I want someone that I can look up to for advice when I need it and will be willing to see me as a partner not as a slave. someone that will see the good in me, push and pull me to success in this life and the hereafter. I want someone I can be vulnerable with. All I seek for in a spouse are things I pray and will strive to be as a spouse. I am playful and would like him to be a playmate - or who would you prefer I play with?----Lol Though quiet and reserved, I can be a chatterbox too.....you worried? No need to, I wont bore you at all with my chats.......you would look forward to it once we get talking............. I used to be a Tomboy and I still think I am by heart so my interests might not be like what other ladies do................... In summary, I am imperfect and not seeking a perfect spouse either just someone that can accommodate me with my baggage and I would do the same for him too May we be blessed with a righteous spouse and companion......Aameen In Shaa Allaah, this should suffice for now